Tips for team parenting

Hello current or future parent! Parenting is easier when you are surrounded by loved ones, with whom you can share your everyday joys, worries and responsibilities, and who can support you in difficult moments. Often the most important support is your partner, but support can also come from other people close to you.

Here you will find tips and exercises to help you work together as a team.

Table of contents

Project duration
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Core fields of research
Learning, teaching and interaction
Physical activity, health and wellbeing
Languages, culture and society
Research areas
JYU.Well
Social Sustainability for Children and Families
Childhood and family
Co-operation
Wellbeing Services County of Central Finland, JAMK, Finnish Institute for Health and Welfare (THL)
Faculty
Faculty of Education and Psychology

What is it about?

Cooperation between parents is important for the well-being of the whole family!

That's why we want to offer all expecting and new parents, regardless of family type, research-based tips and exercises for building a well-functioning co-parenting relationship.

For some, a partner can be an important pillar of everyday life. A single parent can share parenting with other close adults such as relatives and friends. These support networks are important for all parents of baby families, and our tips encourage parents to seek out other caring adults to support them.

Check out our tips and take steps towards a smoother daily life together!

6 tips to support a well-functioning team

1. Getting to know co-parenting

Get your first tip here, and get to know co-parenting! 

2. Steps to a well-functioning team

In the 9- step reflection path, you will find questions to help and support you in building a working co-parenting team. Check out the path and the second tip here

3. The importance of positive feedback and support

Appreciation and mutual support are one of the cornerstones of a well-functioning parenting team. See our third tip here

4. The benefits of effective co-parenting

Research has shown that effective co-parenting has a wide range of benefits, which you can find out about in tip number 4.

You can also use the tip to test what kind of co-parent you are!

5. The challenges of co-parenting

Challenges and difficulties are a normal part of life, especially in the early stages of parenthood. For example, various changes or other stress factors due to life circumstances can affect the way co-parenting works.

You can read our fifth tip here!

6. Division of labour that suits the family

You can find our last tip here. Here you'll find food for thought and tips to help you find a suitable division of labour. Families are different, as are the ways in which they share work and responsibilities.

Exercises

A successful team effort between parents does not necessarily start well straight away, but often takes a lot of hard work. Here you will find reflection tasks and exercises to support co-parenting, grouped under six different themes.

Choose the exercises that suit your family and go for it! Some of the exercises are also very suitable to do with friends or relatives, for example.

Materials

Save and print the Tips for team parenting materials for yourself, to support your work, or to share with other parents, for example!

Where to get support if co-parenting is challenging?

Everyday problems are part of normal life and all parents face disagreements or other challenges from time to time. For example, changes or other life stressors can affect how well co-parenting works. 

However, it is important to recognise when these challenges are ones for which external support is needed. It is perfectly okay to ask for help if you feel that your own methods or resources are not sufficient to deal with the challenges. 

You can discuss any challenges at your Maternity and Child Health Clinic, for example. Professionals are there for you and together you can work out the best solution for your family. 

We have listed a few services that can help you with parenting challenges in Central Finland. 

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Concern for your own safety, or the safety of a loved one

Are you concerned about aggressive, threatening or controlling behaviour by yourself, your partner or someone close to you?

Everyone has the right to physical safety and a sense of emotional security. It can sometimes be difficult to recognize violence, but it is important to remember that it is never acceptable or justified in any situation. 

In the links below you can read more about the different forms of intimate partner and domestic violence, and find services to contact in acute crisis situations, or to seek support as a survivor or perpetrator of violence.