Listening skills

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Listening is a skill worth developing
Intentional listening,for example, helps in making lecture notes, in interpreting and understanding the communication of others, and in creating a sense of partnership and trust, for example, in negotiation and teamwork.
The relevance of listening skills in working life is demonstrated by the fact that being heard, understood and appreciated are key criteria when assessing the quality of work and the productiveness of work in many expert positions.
Listening is a multilateral process
Listen to what listening includes and, for example, what is the difference between hearing and listening:
What kind of listening is needed?
Do you
- like to focus on listening critically, even when it might be more important in the communicative relationship to show presence and acceptance?
- tend to focus on shortcomings in pronunciation or grammatical conjugations in the other person's speech, rather than striving to understand the message?
- prefer to resolve the conflict quickly by presenting your own solutions?
The appropriate and effective way of listening depends on the communication task, goals, situation, and the parties involved.
Examples of listening orientations
- analytical/categorical listening: This involves categorising the content of the message (e.g, to opinions, facts, reasons, and consequences). When giving feedback on learning tasks, analytical and categorical listening helps to pay attention to what is essential.
- critical listening: This emphasises evaluating messages from perspectives such as reliability and consequences. In the case of a scientific presentation, in addition to analytical and categorical listening, critical listening that assesses reliability is necessary.
- supportive listening: This places emphasis on demonstrating presence and creating a welcoming and encouraging atmosphere. In situations where encouragement and support are needed, or when dealing with challenging issues, it is important to express supportive listening.
- dialogical listening: This orientation is aimed at encouraging parties to present their viewpoints and consider each other's perspectives. In situations where it is important to present viewpoints from all parties, a dialogical listening orientation serves best in achieving the goal.
Can you think of a situation where you have used various listening orientations?

Speak in a way that makes people want to listen to you. Listen in a way that makes people want to speak to you.